October 2025 Dealing with Difficult People Newsletter

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Last month we discussed Roberta Cava’s Hardcover books. This month we will discuss the following:

CHILDREN ABANDONING PARENTS

It amazes me how many seniors have admitted that their children have abandoned them and left them alone to decide what their futures will be.  The seniors then must decide:

  • What healthcare needs they have, and whether they will go into aged care homes or try to stay in their homes.
  • Some must give up driving their cars and must depend upon others to drive them.
  • Then comes the decision about who would be their executors if their children don’t want to be involved: possibly older friends?
  • These seniors need to decide whether they will donate their organs upon their deaths.
  • Who would get what amounts from their estate.
  • Who will help them do their will.

Those who are responsible for caring for seniors during their twilight years will find valuable information on helping them prepare for their final years by obtaining a copy of the book After Your Lights Go Out.

Cava Consulting published that book by Kevin Freeman which covers the following issues:                    

  • What to consider when planning for your future years.
  • Learn about sensitive issues that are not in your Will.
  • Minimise unexpected disputes over personal possessions.
  • Discover the benefits of clear personal and financial records.
  • Use this book as a ‘second opinion’ to compare with your current book-keeping methods.
  • Your loved ones, and your Executor, will appreciate your
  • efforts.
  • Enjoy peace of mind knowing that your Estate will be finalised as you wish.
  •  Suggestions for writing a eulogy; plus
  •  Tips for writing your own life story.                                         

To order Kevin’s book – go to Amazon Books then search for books by Kevin Freeman and order After Your Lights Go Out online.

To see Roberta Cava’s books: Go to ‘amazon.com’ then click ‘Books’ and under ‘search’ put ‘Roberta Cava.’

To contact Roberta Cava or Cava Consulting, please send an e-mail to cavaconsulting@ozemail.com.au